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Home Sweet Home

My parents have moved several times since I left home. Something dawned on me one of the times I was visiting them. Going to their house felt like home. It didn’t seem to matter that they were living in an entirely different state than I grew up in or that their new home bore little resemblance to my childhood one. It still felt like home.

I have reflected on this often since then, and the only conclusion that I can come up with to explain this is that home isn’t really about a particular place but rather it is a feeling. I have always felt loved, protected and wanted in my home. Somehow, even though I am long since grown, my parents have preserved that and brought it with them on each of their moves.

This realization has given me a mission of sorts for my own family. It is to create an environment within the walls of my home that helps my children to feel loved, protected and valued.

This blog will be some of my ramblings about our successes and failures on that front. This is a place that I will share our traditions, treasured recipes, family travels and parenting tips.

Let’s not Panic!

The Corona virus is hanging over our heads like a black cloud, a little like the weather has been in East Tennessee this month. There have been more than a few times where, at least one of us, has felt seriously uneasy about the whole situation. Here is what we are doing to deal with our fears and the overload of emotion in our home.

  1. Get the facts. It is almost impossible to avoid the headlines on this crisis. I am not advocating hiding your head in the sand with this, but honestly the constant flow of news is hard to take and can be quite unsettling. We have found that looking at the CDC website as well as our state and local health department’s sites to be very calming. They give real information, numbers and percentages that put it all in perspective.
  2. Make a plan. My biggest worrier is also a planner. I believe she feels the most anxiety when she is unable to control her situation. Enter the plan. We have discussed as a family what we would do if one of us got sick, or the family is quarantined. The kids have each picked and we have stocked up on a few favorite snacks. They have seen me add some basic over the counter medications to our supply. We have planned activities that we could do if we get stuck at home. Knowing what to expect has calmed nerves, and the prospect of illness or a quarantine seems a lot less scary.
  3. Get busy. We have followed the suggestions for sanitation from the CDC’s website. Each of us has a few assignments to do to help keep our home environment safe, as well as a list of personal hygiene tasks. I feel like the children focusing on what they can do has taken the emphasis off of the feeling of helplessness, with the added bonus that our home and hands are a great deal cleaner.
  4. Create a stable environment. We are carrying on at home as normally as possible. Family dinner and daily routines are very helpful in making all of us feel secure. This is not a bad time for a little extra comfort either. Chicken noodle soup and hot chocolate chip cookies anyone?

Our Favorite Molasses Cookies (the ultimate in comfort food around here)

Adapted from Mel’s Kitchen Cafe

1 1/2 cups butter ( no substitutions)

1/2 cup black strap molasses

1 1/2 cups granulated sugar (plus 1/3 cup for rolling the cookies in)

2 large eggs

4 cups all purpose flour

2 teaspoons baking soda

2 teaspoons cinnamon

1 teaspoon ground cloves

1 teaspoon ground ginger

1 teaspoon salt

Cream the butter, sugar and molasses together, then beat in the eggs one at a time. Sift the dry ingredients together and beat into the creamed mixture. Chill the dough for at least 20 -30 minutes (don’t skip this step!). Roll the dough into 1 inch balls and then roll into the reserved sugar. Bake for 8-10 minutes in a preheated 375 degree oven. Take care not to overbake these. I like to take them out of the oven when they are still just a bit underdone in the middle and let them finishing baking on the sheet.

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About the Author

My name is Lynnette Kersten. My family has had to move a lot. We have had the privilege of living in Arizona, Connecticut, North Carolina, Wisconsin, Utah and Georgia. All of this change has presented me with the challenge of helping my children feel like our new residences are their home. I have discovered that home is more about a feeling than it is a geographical location or building. Together we are striving to build a home where each of us feels like we belong and that we can always hold in our hearts.